Thursday, March 14, 2013

Women around the World

I am back to blogging after a hiatus due to personal circumstances. But human rights and social justice issues were never far from my mind. I have several posts in draft form waiting to be published so I will do that over the next few days.

Recently we celebrated International Women's Day, and though this day has come and gone, celebrating the accomplishments of women around the world as well as acknowledging their hardships should not be a one day thing. As I joined in on the celebrations with my mother-in-law at a local community center and then later that weekend listened to some conversations of women from Latin America who spoke of their stories, I was suddenly struck with the thought -- though not new nor profound -- that women are always so much more affected by violence, poverty, and politics than any other people. Here I was listening to my mother-in-law and her friends, thinking of my own mother's hardships, and thinking of those women still struggling today, when it hit me that it seemed that no matter what continent or what country these women were from their stories resonated in unison of the vulnerability of women everywhere. But their stories did not only speak of vulnerability; they spoke of strength--incredible strength--to overcome the obstacles in order to live a better life, save their children, and be teachers to us all.

Women still face obstacles and challenges everywhere; and crimes are still committed against them simply based on their gender. Think of the young woman who was gang-raped in India towards the end of last year. Think of women who are victims of domestic violence, right here in the United States to prompt the renewal of the Violence Against Women Act. Think of young girls forced to marry because of poverty and hunger in South Sudan. These are just a few examples of what happens around the world today, in the 21st century. I hope that in the coming years, we do not need to take a special day to recognize the plight of women around the world but learn to work together with everyone to build a better, more respectful and peaceful world for the next generation regardless of gender.

And I hope that we can remember that it is up to us to teach the next generation how women should be treated. I will always remember what I heard this past International Women's Day: "If a man treats a woman like a princess it is because he was taught by a queen." It is the attitudes and ideas that we hand down to our children that generally form the basis of ill-treatment of others. Let us be a generation that is aware of the injustices and resolve them for the next generation.